so i've been feeling a lot like this lately...and i was trying to understand how to deal with it all...because no matter how much you say and believe that you can deal...there is always that voice in the back of your head that will try to pull you back...my aunt just sent me an e-mail today that confirmed that it is possible to "let it go"...no matter what it is...
By T. D. Jakes
There are people who can walk away from you.
And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you,
caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone.
When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for
us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
Let them go..
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over and you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains ......
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth.....
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you ........
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction.....
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude.......
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better......
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him......
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship...............
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves.....
LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed .........
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying 'take your hands off of it,' then you need to......
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past. Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2009!!!
LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left .. think about it, and then .
LET IT GO!!!
'The Battle is the Lord's!'
Tuesday, March 10, 2009
Let It Go!!!
Posted by ...sIMPLY NATAsHA... at 2:34 PM 0 comments
update
So I have not written in almost two months...but it wasn't done intentionally...it's just that all of my past blogs were written before the new semester started...and I had time to do whatever I wanted...well a lot has happened since then...::sigh::...I've been very busy...I'm either in class, a meeting, practice or at work...but I'm making it all happen.
So great news...I love my major [[ linguistics ]] ...its really exciting and different...
Even better news...I finally let him go...I finally told him that I couldn't take it anymore and I was done hanging around when he didn't care about me or loved me [[ the way I wanted him to ]]...when I told him that I only wanted to be friends and nothing more...I was told that I was "full of shit" and then hung up on...it took soooooooo much out of me to not call back and tell him about hisself...but I chose to not to because that would show that I cared...a few weeks later around Valentine's Day he he's harrassing me asking if he can be my Valentine...I don't get you...you say I'm full of shit but you want to be my Valentine...then a week later he's calling and texting me talking about why am I acting up...I know I messed up but you're taking it too far now...I would never push you away like that...
But the thing is that...you have...soooo many times before...and every single time I've taken you back...and brushed everything you ever done to me to the side...because I loved you...and I was willing to put my feelings on the back burner...but I was done feeling this way for someone who couldn't show how much they cared because they were "too far away"...but that is garbage and I can no longer stand around and feel this way...
Right now...I'm not looking for anyone...I'm just focusing on my books and work and the orgs that I am involved in...granted there is someone that I am pursuing but this time I will take it slow because there are some barriers that are affecting our potential relationship...but honestly I'm not sweating anything...whatever happens happens...I just won't hold my hopes too high...
Whewww that was a lot...but its been a while since I've last posted...sooo yeah...anywho...GOB BLESS and BE SAFE ALWAYS!!!
Posted by ...sIMPLY NATAsHA... at 1:10 PM 0 comments